Today marks seven years since we lost my mom, Whitney Marsh, to pancreatic cancer. I remember her diagnosis in January of 2018. I was cheering courtside at a Southside basketball game when I got the call from my parents. I remember feeling fear, anger, and shock.
Those nine months leading up to her passing were filled with many moments of sadness and grief in anticipation of what would happen, but more importantly, they were filled with love. It was late nights laughing, trying on silly wigs as my mom was going through chemotherapy. It was eating all the meals she cooked for us so we could enjoy extra moments as a family. It was my mom painting face masks on me and my little sister for a “spa” night at home. And many more moments of teaching us the value of every second we have on earth with our family, but also the importance of community.
After my mom passed away, I was overtaken with fear that I would somehow forget her. That the world would forget the Whitney Marsh we knew and loved - the crazy athlete, social butterfly, homeroom mom, killer chef, and a friend to all.
But she wasn't forgotten - because of all of you.
Because of your support, you not only helped us keep my mom's memory alive, but you also helped us fight for the lives of other families.
Every meal made, penny donated, text sent, and moment volunteered has never gone unnoticed. It's been your support year after year that has made it possible to help other families that will have to fight the same journey my mom did. You have given us and our community the gift of life and remembrance, and for that, the Marsh family and countless others are forever grateful to you.
When I think back to when my mom was diagnosed, I know my family didn't know where to go or who to talk to. But now, with your support, our community can lean on the Whitney Marsh Foundation for the resources we needed at the time.
Whether it's a survivor network, a cancer grief support group, funding cancer testing for families, covering travel costs, supporting nurse positions, hosting symposiums, advancing research, or so much more, you have given Arkansas families that gift.
It's been seven years without my mom, and I often ask myself what my mom would say or do. I know it would bring tears to her eyes to know that you helped us keep her spirit alive, but, more importantly, you have helped save lives. You have helped us get one step closer to realizing our ultimate goal - creating a world without cancer.
On behalf of our family, thank you for all that you do. Spend today with your loved ones and tell them you love them. Later is too late.
Madison Marsh is the President and founder of the Whitney Marsh Foundation. She was crowned Miss America 2024 and is a graduate of the U.S. Air Force Academy with a bachelor's degree in physics. Madison is currently pursuing graduate studies at the Harvard Kennedy School, where she focuses on combining scientific research and policy for pancreatic cancer. She has led the foundation for over six years, dedicating her time to serving Arkansas. When she is not working, Madison enjoys reading and spending time with her fiancé.